The art of FliRtiNg...

The Bitch Says:

We've always enjoyed our ability to flirt our way through anything and everything.. To a point, we've used everything from a flirty smile to openly going up to a person and ask for a name or number. We've enjoyed the triumphs, sulked through rejection, and ranted on the defeats (damned). but to what extent..? How long will this ability last? How long before we get sick of the freebies? discounts? getting whatever we want with a wave of our hand, a simple text message, or a smile... will we actually ever get sick of it? will we get tired of being treated like a princess? and simply because we have the "hoTneSs" in us?

~i dont think so~ :)

The Witch says:

To be honest, I never saw myself as a flirt. I even cried when someone told me I was a few years back. It seems so negative to me back then. I guess maturity and experience changes one's perspective as I totally understand now how people can brand me as such and why it's not such a negative thing anymore. I don't mind being called a flirt now, because I am.

I've tons of male friends. More than the number of girl friends that I have. Not because I'm a flirt but simply because it's way easier to keep relationships with males as they're not too emotionally draining, not maarte or demanding. A lot of people mistook that as me being a flirt. C'mon! I'm just spending time with them having "dude" time, how can that be classified as flirting? Seriously.

I've this thing about being able to start conversations at the most unlikely situations and people. One time I visited a friend at work and we went to have coffee at the local Starbucks there. I came there for 2 consecutive nights. The first night I started joking with the Baristas. the second night they were all smiles when they saw me, asking if I'm gonna have the same order and they of course remembered my name. ny friend then told me, "kaya ka napagsasabihan na flirt e." And I was thiking, I'm just being friendly and if they think that's flirting then so be it.

Now that's the unconscious way of flirting. If we go to the real thing that'll be an entirely different story. I've flirted a lot of times consciously. Most of the time I'd get the reaction that I want, be it the admiration or the utter awe that I receive when I start dripping with female pheromones. The Bitch is right though, it could get old. What's next then? As I would always say, Flirting is an art that results to Seduction.

The Lady says:

I never really was very proficient with the art of flirting. You might say, I'm a reactive flirt. I never go out of my way to flirt with anyone because the results are usually disastrous. I usually just drop a hint like a hanky dropped on purpose and then it's up to you how I will react. Boring? I know but I feel the the cost always outweighs the benefits. I don't really like dealing with flirting gone wrong! It's so EWWW.

I have to say though, when flirting goes right, it definitely is wonderful! It's like enjoying that caramelized strawberry dipped in whipped cream. One can never get enough but one has to be careful not to mess yourself up. Be careful, you might end up with a hell of a mess with the whipped cream!

I know it'll really sound as if I'm contradicting myself with this. But I still agree with the Bitch and the Witch. I don't really think we'd get tired of the art, especially if you do it in moderation. And with just a little adjustment, we can lead it to Seduction! Not that I had first-hand experience on the matter. Just a theory that's all. Hihi~

The Witch says:

I don't think I'd ever get tired of it. It's a built-in mechanism really. Just like the urge to have sex. Also, why stop when you can get spoiled rotten just for being a good flirt. It's just addicting.

So what'll be the next blog be about? Seduction? Weeee~