To Be Right

The Witch says:

Two kids were playing in a park and they began to argue. One said, “I hate you. I’ll never play with you again.”

For a few moments they played separately then later they’re playing together again. How do kids manage to be so mad in a minute and be best of friends the next? Simply because it’s more important for them to be happy than to be right.

Then why when I’m on the path of chasing my happiness I always stop myself simply because I know I’m wrong? Does the rule change just because you’re aware of what’s right and what’s not? Then maybe the cloud of innocence is nothing but a myth. You’re never innocent, you simply ignore what’s wrong and you choose happiness despite that fact.

Or maybe, I’m just thinking too much. Life is meant to be lived as I would always say. You’re not supposed to think through it, you’re supposed to experience it. Then why can’t I?

The Lady says:

I don't think innocence is just a myth. We were innocent once but as our world gets bigger and things gets more complicated, we have to make room for it and innocence gets pushed over the edge. There just isn't any room for it anymore. There's only room left for excuses? I don't know.

I totally disagree about ignoring right just to be happy is innocence. I've done that and it never gave me the happy ending I wanted and it didn't seem innocent as well! If innocence is the key to happiness, we're all doomed. None of us are innocent but happiness will come. It will maybe if we try a little harder.

I don't know how hard we have to try but sometimes there's nothing else to do but try. I think maybe we're just not clear on what we want? Fate I think needs to clean out her ears. It's right to be wrong? I'd rather be that it's right to be naughty! Hihi.

I know I'm rambling and my train of thought is fragmented so you'll just have to pick on the pieces and choose whichever! :)

The Witch says:

I agree. Your train of thought is somewhat like mine, a wreck. What took you guys too long to answer my bloggie entry?

The Lady says:

Too busy! Haay. When will you become regional? I'm hungry for a treat! :p

The Witch says:

You make it sound like an easy thing to transition too! When are YOU gonna be...errr...anything? I want my treat too!

The Bitch Says:

I'm late again.. tsk tsk .. like the lady said.. busy.. ;) hehehe. anyway, what are we talking about here? o yeah, the relation of innocence to happiness. my take on this is, innocence stumbles into happiness and takes it as that. nothing else. me, id rather know what makes and is making me happy than accidentally stumble into it..

and quoting the Witch: our dear sweet lady.. we look forward to the day we call you "boss" :)

Curse Broken

The Witch says:

Curse broken. Again. Whoever said we won't get it done again? Well, I only have one picture on my phone but I'll post the others from a different day.

Unavailable

The Lady says:

We haven't done this in a while and we haven't gone out for the longest time now. It seems like the Curse is back again! But this hiatus kind of made me think about my current status. I know that we spout that we're independent and we're loving it but it makes me wonder. Are we really loving it?

Don't get me wrong. I love the freedom! But I sometimes wonder if underneath it all there's a desperation for that other someone. Then again, if I really am desperate, why is it that I have a tendency to shutdown any chance of dates in the horizon? Not that it's all me. Sometimes fate also conspires against it. And it's not that there's a lot of dates on the horizon but the point it is they're there. Shouldn't I grab every opportunity as if it's my last? I feel like I should be making an utter fool of myself trying to get hitch or atleast getting some instead trying to evade it. Instead, here I am, snoozing my weekends away!

I really don't know what or why it is but I am single and unavailable! Go figure.

Note: I think the Witch and I would be in agreement that it would really be interesting what the Bitch has to say on this or if she can really say anything about this at all. Hihi

The Witch says:

Now, now, the curse will be broken again I'm sure. So in that area, no worries I say!

On being unavailable though, well, that's something I deal with daily. I always say I'm single and desperate only because I can't find anyone good enough. The real reason though is that I'm just too busy being busy or too busy not being busy to actually explore.

I'm more vocal than the Lady when it comes to admitting my NEED to be with someone. Of course having been with someone before made me realized all the more what I'm missing. Being single has a lot of advantages though. I literally have all the time in the world. I can do anything I want anytime I want, I can cancel anything whenever I feel like it, I never have to consult anyone for anything. I'm not saying though that it's all fun. Loneliness would often time creep in and I'd be...errr...wanting.

To the Lady, please don't grab every single opportunity thinking it's your last. You're more than that. The moment you start thinking no one's coming, then they'd stop coming. Let them. Hahaha~ Enjoy the show while you can. I know, I know you'd say I'm just saying it. Fact is, if I'm as desperate as I make you guys think maybe I wouldn't have had just one mistake over a span of 3 years. I would have had at least a dozen. Hahahaha~

The Bitch Says:

I'm late. Sorry. Although i wouldnt count me out just yet. I never said being unavailable was fun all the time. and i know you both can attest to that . Fact of the matter is, i DO miss being like you guys. The whole she bang of being available? its in the past. and i honestly dont know how i would ever survive again once there. Although now that i think about it, i dont think i ever left that place.. maybe a part of me is still there, wanting to feel available. Not wanting to be tied up.

To the Lady and the Witch, dont sell yourselves short, there are times when i would loooooove to be in your shoes. Its not all sunshines and roses on this end either you know.

;P